Sunday, June 22, 2008

A Single Tear


Today after church I went to visit mom. Usually when I visit, dad is there, but today it was just mom and I. She was wide-awake and seemed intent on everything I said. I've noticed that mom always seems to give the right response if it's only two or three words but when she tries to say much more, the words get all jumbled up. I told her about John’s graduation and she said, "How wonderful." I told her about little River and that Amy is having another girl that she might name Lily. She said, “That’s great.” I told her that Dave is working on an MBA and Becky made a new CD and she said, “That’s swell.” I told her about how busy I’ve been with the Young Women and that I just planted geraniums because, like she always told me, they have the least amount of pollen and that Kathryn has planted a vegetable garden. She said, “That’s good.” I rambled on for a while as she seemed to be so interested but then I stopped short. A single tear fell down the side of her cheek. A realization shot through me and pierced my heart. She’s still in there. She knows I love her and that tiny tear told me that she loves me. There are bonds stronger than death and I felt that today.

Monday, June 2, 2008

Grandma Vivi






Grandma Vivi is doing a lot better. Big John had asked the nurse to give her some Lortab for back pain and it turns out that is what’s been making her so listless. They stopped giving it to her and she perked right up. Yesterday Kathryn, Becky and I took River over to see Grandma Vivi. Grandma smiled when she saw the baby and Big John was so happy that we came.
River is growing fast and adjusting very well to her new life. She has had some colic but seems to be doing better at night. Kath and Alex both commented that it seems like River’s always been with them. I think she’s known them for a lot longer then 3 weeks.

Every chance we get




Last week we had a great visit with Amy, Trav and family. We went to the YMCA for a swim, watched Isaac at his Quan do class, played horsey, monopoly and wii, drove to Leavenworth and saw a black bear on the side of the highway and did a lot of drawing. It’s hard to believe how fast our grandchildren are growing up. We love to see them every chance we get.